We have been using buffer pools for a while all over `connlib` as a way
to efficiently use heap-allocated memory. This PR harmonizes the usage
of buffer pools across the codebase by introducing a dedicated
`bufferpool` crate. This crate offers a convenient and easy-to-use API
for all the things we (currently) need from buffer pools. As a nice
bonus of having it all in one place, we can now also track metrics of
how many buffers we have currently allocated.
An example output from the local metrics exporter looks like this:
```
Name : system.buffer.count
Description : The number of buffers allocated in the pool.
Unit : {buffers}
Type : Sum
Sum DataPoints
Monotonic : false
Temporality : Cumulative
DataPoint #0
StartTime : 2025-04-29 12:41:25.278436
EndTime : 2025-04-29 12:42:25.278088
Value : 96
Attributes :
-> system.buffer.pool.name: udp-socket-v6
-> system.buffer.pool.buffer_size: 65535
DataPoint #1
StartTime : 2025-04-29 12:41:25.278436
EndTime : 2025-04-29 12:42:25.278088
Value : 7
Attributes :
-> system.buffer.pool.buffer_size: 131600
-> system.buffer.pool.name: gso-queue
DataPoint #2
StartTime : 2025-04-29 12:41:25.278436
EndTime : 2025-04-29 12:42:25.278088
Value : 128
Attributes :
-> system.buffer.pool.name: udp-socket-v4
-> system.buffer.pool.buffer_size: 65535
DataPoint #3
StartTime : 2025-04-29 12:41:25.278436
EndTime : 2025-04-29 12:42:25.278088
Value : 8
Attributes :
-> system.buffer.pool.buffer_size: 1336
-> system.buffer.pool.name: ip-packet
DataPoint #4
StartTime : 2025-04-29 12:41:25.278436
EndTime : 2025-04-29 12:42:25.278088
Value : 9
Attributes :
-> system.buffer.pool.buffer_size: 1336
-> system.buffer.pool.name: snownet
```
Resolves: #8385
