Merge pull request #36079 from apprenda/windows_kube_proxy

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Add Windows support to kube-proxy

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**What this PR does / why we need it**:
This is the first stab at supporting kube-proxy (userspace mode) on Windows

**Which issue this PR fixes** : 
fixes #30278

**Special notes for your reviewer**:
The MVP uses `netsh portproxy` to redirect traffic from `ServiceIP:ServicePort` to a `LocalIP:LocalPort`. 
For the next version we are expecting to have guidance from Microsoft Container Networking team.

**Limitations**:
Current implementation does not support DNS queries over UDP as `netsh portproxy` currently only supports TCP. We are working with Microsoft to remediate this.

cc: @brendandburns @dcbw 

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hack/.linted_packages

@@ -220,6 +220,7 @@ pkg/util/limitwriter
 pkg/util/logs
 pkg/util/maps
 pkg/util/metrics
+pkg/util/netsh
 pkg/util/ratelimit
 pkg/util/replicaset
 pkg/util/validation/field