update OpenTelemetry dependencies and grpc

This update dropped the otelgrpc → cloud.google.com/go/compute dependency,
among others. This dropped out because genproto cleaned up it's dependencies
on google cloud libraries, and otel updated - details in #113366.

Signed-off-by: Davanum Srinivas <davanum@gmail.com>
Co-Authored-By: David Ashpole <dashpole@google.com>

vendor/google.golang.org/grpc/codes/codes.go

@@ -25,7 +25,13 @@ import (
 	"strconv"
 )
 
-// A Code is an unsigned 32-bit error code as defined in the gRPC spec.
+// A Code is a status code defined according to the [gRPC documentation].
+//
+// Only the codes defined as consts in this package are valid codes. Do not use
+// other code values.  Behavior of other codes is implementation-specific and
+// interoperability between implementations is not guaranteed.
+//
+// [gRPC documentation]: https://github.com/grpc/grpc/blob/master/doc/statuscodes.md
 type Code uint32
 
 const (
@@ -229,7 +235,7 @@ func (c *Code) UnmarshalJSON(b []byte) error {
 
 	if ci, err := strconv.ParseUint(string(b), 10, 32); err == nil {
 		if ci >= _maxCode {
-			return fmt.Errorf("invalid code: %q", ci)
+			return fmt.Errorf("invalid code: %d", ci)
 		}
 
 		*c = Code(ci)