update OpenTelemetry dependencies and grpc

This update dropped the otelgrpc → cloud.google.com/go/compute dependency,
among others. This dropped out because genproto cleaned up it's dependencies
on google cloud libraries, and otel updated - details in #113366.

Signed-off-by: Davanum Srinivas <davanum@gmail.com>
Co-Authored-By: David Ashpole <dashpole@google.com>

vendor/google.golang.org/grpc/trace.go

@@ -26,8 +26,6 @@ import (
 	"strings"
 	"sync"
 	"time"
-
-	"golang.org/x/net/trace"
 )
 
 // EnableTracing controls whether to trace RPCs using the golang.org/x/net/trace package.
@@ -44,9 +42,31 @@ func methodFamily(m string) string {
 	return m
 }
 
+// traceEventLog mirrors golang.org/x/net/trace.EventLog.
+//
+// It exists in order to avoid importing x/net/trace on grpcnotrace builds.
+type traceEventLog interface {
+	Printf(format string, a ...any)
+	Errorf(format string, a ...any)
+	Finish()
+}
+
+// traceLog mirrors golang.org/x/net/trace.Trace.
+//
+// It exists in order to avoid importing x/net/trace on grpcnotrace builds.
+type traceLog interface {
+	LazyLog(x fmt.Stringer, sensitive bool)
+	LazyPrintf(format string, a ...any)
+	SetError()
+	SetRecycler(f func(any))
+	SetTraceInfo(traceID, spanID uint64)
+	SetMaxEvents(m int)
+	Finish()
+}
+
 // traceInfo contains tracing information for an RPC.
 type traceInfo struct {
-	tr        trace.Trace
+	tr        traceLog
 	firstLine firstLine
 }